First Class Homeschool Ministries
FCHM CONNECTIONS
January 2008
In This Issue
Founder's Feature
Podcast
Jumpstart the New Year with Jane Lambert
Homeschooling in the News
Insurance for your Co-op


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At First Class, we believe in homeschooling all the way through high school. 
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Top Ten
Reasons Why to Consider Homeschooling Through High School
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by Steve Lambert wrote: Getting back in the groove after the holidays can seem overwhelming. This is also the time of year when colds and flu can take the wind out of our homeschooling sails.

Over the years, Jane and I found that when all else fails- just reading aloud with the children was always a recipe for success!



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Of Flooding, Floundering and Faithfulness (God's, that is)

Have you ever had a moment when you wondered why you were homeschooling, or a moment of discouragement that caused you to question if you could keep on doing it?  Now, don't be shy-- I'm stepping up here!  Sometimes, homeschooling can be challenging.  Just like the things that we cherish the most require work (including marriage and parenting), homeschooling has it's ups and downs.  Can I get an amen?

Our oldest daughter, now a sophomore, used to attend public school in the small town of Canby, Oregon. I was not your average candidate for homeschooling.  I never expected to be a homeschool mom.  God got ahold my heart one January morning nearly ten years ago, and we made the monumental decision to bring Savannah home from school.

I remember the days of sending her off to school, lunchbox in hand, and waving until the bus disappeared from sight.  I would glance quickly at her papers when she came home from school, attend parent-teacher conferences and the PTA.  Even though I had nagging doubts in my mind about the environment she was in, the thought of homeschooling was overwhelming to me.  It makes me laugh now, since we have six children, five of whom have never been to "traditional" school. 

We've chosen to continue homeschooling because once we saw the fruit and benefits of homeschooling, we never looked back.  Well, that's not entirely true.  We've glanced back over our shoulders a time or two.  My story is like a lot of your stories, I imagine. 
Every once in a while, I think about what my "old life" was like.

Just like most homeschool moms, I have had my moments along this journey we are on.  Last month, our basement flooded.  As a result, we lost five weeks of "real" school, several of our books and assignments were ruined, and the majority of the lower floor of our house was packed up and stored in the garage. 

Determined to stay "on track", I resolved that the condition of our house and the stress that went along with it would not interrupt our school time.  (I know, I know, don't ask me why.)  Sometimes I can be so stubborn!   I think even the Lord must shake His head at me, and then, because God knows what we need, He blesses my husband with more patience than most people would ever have need of!

It's a good thing God knows what we need, because the morning of December 5th felt like a homeschool deal-breaker for me.  Now don't get me wrong, we're committed to homeschooling!  But quite honestly, I wanted to give up as I stood in our front window and watched the neighborhood kids get on the school bus while their moms stood nearby, sipping their morning coffee and visiting.  "Goodbye, sweetie!  Have a nice day!", they called. "See you at three!"

"See you at three?"  I could only imagine.  I turned around just in time to see my six year old spill a half gallon of orange juice onto the kitchen floor.  "Calgon!"  I wailed,  "Take me away!"   No answer.  Nada.

I got the mop.

Meanwhile, the three older kids had given up trying to find their school books in the piles of boxes in our garage and were waiting for direction from me.  I had a waterlogged basement, schooling to get to, e-mails to answer, and a phone that was ringing.  I could feel the tension building inside.

As I finished mopping up orange juice I noticed the bus coming back up the street.  I toyed with the idea of running out and asking the bus driver if she might take the children on a "field trip" around the block while I took 15 minutes to regroup and remember exactly why I was not standing with those moms who were waving to their children at the corner of 163rd and 30th.  I asked the Lord to help me face the day- and to give me that peace that passes understanding.  I needed it.

As the clock struck 8:15 a.m., I retreated to my room, feeling sorry for myself for all the things I was "missing out on" because I was homeschooling.  God is so faithful!  As I poured my heart out to Him, He gently reminded me why homeschooling has become so precious to us.  The Lord's loving reminder of what I wasn't missing encouraged me.


I wrote a long list, but here's the short version::

I don't miss the feeling that I used to get watching my 7 year old daughter board the bus and wondering if I could "do that" instead of sending her to school for eight hours a day.

I don't miss the quiet that I thought I needed.  (Not that I don't relish my quiet in the evenings!) Truth is, as I look at how quickly the children are growing, I realize that all too soon I'll be longing for the noises of our busy household.


I don't miss hearing about my children's days as they came home from
school.  Instead, I'm experiencing their days with them as we learn and grow together.

God knows the feelings of insecurity that plagued me for the first few years of homeschooling!  I don't feel that insecurity anymore, because I have seen the fruit that homeschooling yields over time, both academically and spiritually. The Lord has answered my prayers over and over again in both simple and miraculous ways.

Simple things, like being there as our children learn to read their first words, and miraculous things, like seeing their lives transformed from children of Jay and Heidi to children of the King.  The best thing about homeschooling is the time we are able to redeem each day, teaching our children to walk in the ways of God.  That alone is worth the sacrifice!

At 8:45 a.m. I opened my bedroom door and glanced down the hall toward the living room.  Not much had changed.  The two littlest ones were arguing over something and the older children were finishing up their morning chores.  What was different, however, was my perspective.  Thankful.  That's what I am.  God had given me the chance to step back and see the gift I had been given with new eyes. 

I've put the "long list" of reason why we homeschool on my bulletin board.  I'm sure I'll be referring to it many times this year!  Yes, life can be challenging.  Sometimes it's a challenge just to be honest and admit that we don't always have it all together.  However, I am learning that being real with others about my real-life homeschooling offers a freedom all it's own.  It breaks the chains of unrealistic expectations, for one, and it offers the opportunity for our family to grow without the pressure of trying to be the "perfect" homeschooling family.

Sure there will be challenges this year, but the choice we have made to go the distance with homeschooling offers an opportunity like no other.

Even when life is hard, I wouldn't have it any other way. 

Heidi St. John

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What's the First Class Podcast all about?

It's about talking with the people that help to make Christian homeschooling what it is today. What made Diana Waring and Jane Lambert embark on curriculum-writing journeys that exploded into successful programs?  I'll ask them!  What sparked Mike Smith (HSLDA) and Bruce Shortt (Exodus Mandate) to so earnestly defend Homeschooling?  We'll find out!

FCHM's Podcast will also include interviews with co-op leaders from around the country.  We'll give you the latest news from First Class Homeschool Ministries.  We'll talk to homeschooling families and ask them what works...and what doesn't.  We'll discuss why--and how--to homeschool through high school.  And we'll find out what's new in your state's legislature regarding homeschooling.

The Podcast will be recorded bi-monthly and posted on FCHM's website for Friends of First Class to download.  Jay, Heidi and I have been talking about starting the Podcast for quite awhile now, and I finally convinced them to let me talk into the microphone! God's doing great things in homeschooling and we want everyone to have a front row seat.

Join me!

-Alex Schoening, host - FC Podcast

Alex and Julie live in Battle Ground, WA where Alex works for the Clark County Sheriff's office. They serve on the Board of Directors for FCHM.

jane January Jumpstart!
By Jane Claire Lambert
Author of Five in a Row

January has arrived! School will begin once again. Could anyone use a jump-start? Perhaps one of these ideas might help:





Time to Review Ask yourself, why am I doing this? Who called me to homeschooling? Spend some time remembering your goal. It is so easy to forget the goal, and without a vision--well, where are you? As youbegin to refocus, allow some joy to enter your heart.  There is a great deal of work to teaching your own children, but there should also be a freedom ofspirit, a joy in the fact that we are actually able to put our hand to this glorious task!

 Humor Try some new jokes from a good joke book as a class opener. Repeat as necessary to keep a degree of humor in your classroom. We're not talking about disrespectful silliness here, but just a good laugh, now and then to keep up spirits. Remember that happy little minds take in and retain far more than glum ones.  Cheerfulness is important!

 Find the Help You Need  If you are having a particular problem or two with your homeschooling experience, take the time to find answers. There are books, yourFCHM group, different curricula, veteran          homeschool teachers, and the Lord who grants wisdom and who has promised He will never leave you on your own. Don't keep going for another semester without dealing with the issue that needs your     attention. Get outside help, if you need it. Be your child's leader and problem solver, and your student will eventually learn how to lead and how to solve problems from your example!

 Kudos for Nature  If you are a teacher who has been dragging her feet over going outside with her children and doing some investigating and simple nature journaling, then consider this: Everything in our American culture today is warring against us getting out. Yes, from garage door openers, to video games,and so much in between. So, don't let it escape your notice that there are tremendous benefits to soul and  character from spending a bit of time each day admiring and wondering over the world that has been created for us. How will your children know what the Lord has made, if they are never outside? The more time spent, the greater the possibilities for worship!

 A New Beginning You thought I was going to leave this one out, didn't you? But here it is!  We have just entered a new year.  It reminds me of a line from the Anne of Green Gables movies, a fresh new year with "no mistakes in it, yet."  If there are some aspects of the home- schooling experience that you wish could be changed or left behind, now is your chance!

 It always helps to remember that the homeschool teaching experience is just like any other teaching position. There is trial and error, and much developing on the part of the teacher, as well as the student. You           certainly can try several different teaching techniques, and the time spent finding the ones that work for you, and for each of your children, is time well spent.

 Passionate vs. Driven Perhaps children do not learn as well from "driven" teachers. This is because it is actually fear that drives.  When a teacher becomes afraid she will fail, or that she is not checking off enough "to do's," or that perhaps she is [gasp] "behind," she presses harder.  This fear transfers to her students, and actually causes them to turn away from--rather than to turn toward--learning.  If fear is an issue, make sure it's dealt with outside the classroom--get to a place of peace and genuine confidence that you will accomplish every necessary detail in due time. 

A passionate teacher, on the other hand, teaches from love. It is her love of learning and sharing concepts, her excitement and sense of wonder for each subject, that inevitably draws her students gently and steadily into the cavernous world of academics.  A passionate teacher desires that her students learn, but knows that it's okay to slow down when necessary to solidify a concept, and to speed up at times to prevent boredom. She continually lets her joy overcome her fears.

So, go ahead. Take that refreshing deep breath. Enjoy the new semester, your children's sweet faces and all the wonders that you have been waiting to explore together. There are so few children in the entire world who are blessed in having this kind of educational experience, and you will do great!

Jane Lambert, beloved speaker and author of the Five in a Row series, lives with her husband Steve in Lees Summit, MO.  The Lamberts are favorite speakers at homeschool conferences and events across the country.  We are privileged to glean from their insight and experience, as they serve on the FCHM Executive Board of Directors.

Homeschooling in the News
(Article from the Charlotte Observer, NC)

"A Great time for Home Schooling"

Popularity grows among families, communities

CELESTE SMITH

cesmith@charlotteobserver.com

It may have taken Tory Holding a while to take to the idea that she could home school, but now the Park Crossing mom loves it.

Research and mentors helped Holding see she could be a good teacher for her children.  She figured out curriculum choices, class scheduling and state records requirements. Now six years into the routine, Holding says the flexibility allows her and daughter Ally, her eighth-grader, and son Jack, her first-grader, to join her husband on the road whenever his job as an insurance adjuster takes him out of town.

"We wanted to spend more time as a family," Holding said, "and this enables us to do that."

Plus, she has lots of company: At least three other families in her neighborhood off Park Road also home school.

Home schooling is a growing practice in North Carolina, according to state statistics. Locally, parents say there are examples of home schooling's popularity in southern Mecklenburg and in Union County's Weddington and Waxhaw areas -- where support groups, fellow families and activities for home schoolers abound.

Read the rest of this article

What You Need to Know About Insurance for Your Co-op
By Scott Croucher, FCHM Risk Manager

Over this past year we have been getting inquiries regarding insurance for FCHM co-ops.  Questions arise because the church or building owner requires the co-op that is renting or using the space to have a standard liability policy.  Churches ask for this to protect themselves if a student or family member gets hurt during the period that the co-op is occupying the property.In the insurance and property world, this is somewhat standard. The property owner wants protection in the event that they are sued. The limit is usually one million.

Finding insurance can be tricky. 

 The rest of this article is in the FCHM Leadership Ezine

Scott resides in Vancouver, WA near the beautiful Columbia River.  He has been in Risk Managment for over 20 years, and serves on Executive Board of FCHM.

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